An argument worth it ..

*Ding-Ding*
*Click*

"I don't second you on your thoughts", It said.

What? I wondered as I clicked on my PM (personal message) window.
"Why?", I replied to her message not because I wanted to know why a stranger whom I've met a few hours ago doesn't believe in what I think, but because I didn't really have anything to do.

"I think a person is born with his Destiny already written above in heaven somewhere.", She typed in.
"Well,Why do you think so?"
"Well you see there are so many coincidences happening everyday."
"so..", I was skeptical about her thoughts.
"So, Its fate that is driving the universe. Every person is born with a fate of his own and so that's how coincidences happen."
I was still doubtful, so I gave my fingers another little exercise,"But if something is destined to happen then why call it a Coincidence?"
" :-) Because people don't know that it is actually going to happen."
"I still believe that a person is the maker of his own destiny. :-) Think about the Tata's, Birla's and the Ambani's. There was a time when these people weren't rich. They wanted to earn,make things big for themselves and they chose it that ways. So I believe they decided their own fate."
"hmm..."
"If a person wants to get an admission into IIT's or for the matter of fact if he wants to go to Harvard. He can take his time and work hard for it. If he isn't working hard for it then even if a thousand times he says that he wants to be an IITian, it wouldn't suffice."
"Then, think about people who are poor, Don't they have the power to change write their own destiny?"
"Well, They do. But what they really lack are the resources. They don't have money to get good education. The corruption in the country is so high that these people don't get a chance to reveal their talents."
"So, isn't it their destiny? Had they born in a different country, their condition wouldn't have been the same. Don't you think so?"
"You can't really say. There are poor people living in other countries too. Its definitely not their destiny"

So many Questions lingering in her mind had even made me to start to believe that people are born with their destiny, but I didn't want to lose my point and the argument. But by this time, it wasn't just about passing time any more, I was into it. I continued.

"Its basically one's willingness to word hard and get what he desires, that describes a person's fate."

8 minutes and I didn't get any reply from the other side. I thought I had annoyed her.
"Are you there...?" I enquired.

Another 5 minutes just went by. I thought "Gosh, I annoyed that girl. I made a total fool of myself."

*Click*
I closed the PM window thinking about what she must be thinking about me. Believing me to be such an arrogant idiot.
As, I was cursing myself thinking I spoilt somebody's day a window popped.

*Ding-Ding*
It was her. I hastily clicked on the PM window.

"Sorry, I got Disconnected. Actually, we have recently shifted to this new place so everything is bundled up. That's why I keep getting disconnected."

*Sigh* I took a breath of relief and exulted that I had not put this girl into a trauma.

"Where were we?", Another message popped, as I was busy wondering.

"Well, I'm at my place and you were at your's."
"PJ :P", she replied.
"Aah, I'm good at them. ;-)"
"You are so correct, So what about destiny."

This was the time I wanted to forfeit and so I replied, "Actually, I'm in consent with your opinion. I agree that a part of man's destiny is pre-written but he always has an option to change it. Its like a molten wax and one can mould it into any shape he desires." I was exhilarated upon my thoughts.

"Hmm...True. But you need to brush up what you think."

Ow ! That hurt me. I, in a seeping tone replied, "Ok, I hope you are there to guide me."

"Now that I am here, you don't need to worry at all. I gtg now. Dad's home, I need to make him a cup of Tea."
"Ok :-)" Smilingly I replied.
"So, See you later."
"Okay, Bye. See you."
"Bye."
*zzzzzzzzzzzzzz*

And She went offline, leaving me with a thought that is one really born with his destiny. This was the time I actually started believing in that some part of the destiny is Pre-written.


The Blueprint of each and everyone's destiny is already there in the Aura.

Deep Thoughts...

Well, this hour would be a little too late to write a blog rather I should say that it would be a little early for most of the people in my country. Just that I didn't sleep last night doesn't means that everyone's a Nocturnal. Oops! I guess my neighbour just woke up.

Anyways, So "Deep Thoughts"...Thoughts, Cerebrations, Ideas, Mentations, Intellections all are the same. Thinking is a process that every living being undergoes. Its inevitable. A healthy living person has a thousand number of things running in his mind during the course of thinking. Even a drunkard has a number of things going on in his mind even while he is gravely drunk. Its one's thought process that differentiates two human beings who are almost similarly built by the almighty God. According to a study, around a 60000 thoughts (for those who think 60000 is a small number, you can start counting till 60000 and I'm sure you wouldn't cross 500) go through our mind everyday.

Your question : How do i know ?
My answer : Well I saw it on Oprah Winfrey Show and Yes ! I confirmed it on google. :P

The official number might differ for different people but thats not the point that I am talking about here. Its about "Deep Thoughts".

So, Out of those 60000 thoughts that run every single day in our mind what really secernates two different thoughts from being categorised as a normal thought and a deep thought.
It would be highly unripe of me to stipulate something as Deep, because it can be anything for any person. I don't consider myself to be acquired enough to answer this question but I believe, for its beliefs that forms an integral part of a person, that Deep Thoughts are the sentiments that touches one's heart and totally locomotes one's mind and soul. Its mystifying how things can be generalised. The same thing can vividly be so different for two persons.

Life is at the mercy of our thoughts, our thoughts totally control our life in every possible way. But one can thoroughly control them. One needs to have positive thoughts in order to maneuvre success in life. Its very important to have your body fully charged up in order gain that success for

"You have to learn the rules of the game, and then You have to play better than anyone else" --> Albert Einstein


Think over it ... It might put you into a "Deep Thought". ;-)

Desires...

I was just sitting a while ago when I realised that I made a blog yesterday and i promised myself that I will be maintaining the blog this time.

Then I thought, What will i write there...Right now I don't have anything to write..

Just then a thought came into my mind, "Desires".

Suddenly I realised that I have so much to write about.

I quickly put my thinking cap on and started cerebrating and I asked myself.

What are Desires?

What are they?

Where do they come from?

Why do they influence our life so much?

Why is it that Desires never end?

As long these questions were arising in my mind, I quickly Googled (Yes, We all do it) the word "Desire" and the first result was

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Desire_(emotion)

The God of Knowledge on the Internet displaying a play of his immense power and yet again captivating my heart. As I read ...

"Desire is a sense of longing for a person or object or hoping for an outcome"

Right, but ain't this something we already know?

Desires, though Ephemeral (so now you understand why i named my blog) are yet so scintillating. A self-motivated person does so much to achieve what he desires. But in the realm of achieving his desire he forgets that what he longs for is just Ephemeral,Transient...It will not stay, as nothing is permanent in life. While a person slaves to accomplish his wants. he loses so much that he should have accumulated. Not necessarily is he going to achieve what he longs for, yet he learns so much in the process of trying. Trying is what gets a person going. Desires form priorities.

A want can be for anything be it Love, or Trucks of Money, or Passionate Sex, or Taking a Revenge, or A Great White Collar Job, or A House by the beach, It can be anything. A four year old might desire for a chocolate while a 25 year old would want to be a CEO someday. When a person achieves what he longs for, he is exhilarated but then new desires take over and he is on another mission.

Where do all these desires come from?

Well, the World is a park and everyday we walk through it. We see things, we hear things, we touch things and we Smell things, we perceive so much that what we see subdues our mind and body and produces Desires to attain them.

Why do they influence our life so much?

As the perception is so strong that once a desire is impregnated in the soul of a person, he becomes restless. The wants become a necessity. It has the power to transform people.

As life is a cycle, I believe desires also form a cycle. This cycle is of never ending desires. It's not about how we will achieve those desires but In the end what matters is that happiness what we achieve with that we desired.